Thursday, December 15, 2011

The Beginning of the End ....

So, the semester is coming to an end.  As I sit in the library studying, I can't help but feel a bit sad.  These past few months have been the best of my life (HONESTLY).  The friendships I have made and the experiences that I have had were so meaningful and deep. I was YOUNG and WILD and FREE these past months.  I got to take advantage of my youth and just let loose and have fun.  I will forever be grateful for this time...and when I'm old I'll look back on it and smile. 

Its the end of one era of my life and the start of a new one.  Even though I'm filled with sadness...light shines through my heart at the same time.  I have so much to look forward to.  Europe this summer.  An AMAZING internship in Budapest and hopefully the Peace Corps after I graduate from college.  Life is Good.

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein


My favorite childhood story still makes me cry.....


    Once there was a tree..... and she loved a little boy.  And every day the boy would come and he would gather her leaves and make them into crowns and play king of the forest.  He would climb up her trunk and swing from her branches and eat apples. And they would play hide-and-go-seek.  And when he was tired, he would sleep in her shade. And the boy loved the tree.......very much.  And the tree was happy. 

    But time went by.  And the boy grew older.  And the tree was often alone.  Then one day the boy came to the tree and the tree said, "Come, Boy, come and climb up my trunk and swing from my branches and eat apples and play in my shade and be happy." 

    "I am too big to climb and play," said the boy.  "I want to buy things and have fun.  I want some money.  Can you give me some money?"

    "I'm sorry," said the tree, "but I have no money, I have only leaves and apples.  Take my apples, Boy, and sell them in the city. Then you will have money and you will be happy." And so the boy climbed up the tree and gathered her apples and carried them away.  And the tree was happy. 

    But the boy stayed away for a long time... and the tree was sad.  And then one day the boy came back and the tree shook with joy and she said, "Come, Boy, climb up my trunk and swing from my branches and be happy."
    "I am too busy to climb trees," said the boy. "I want a house to keep me warm.  I want a wife and I want children, and so I need a house.  Can you give me a house?"

    "I have no house," said the tree. "The forest is my house, but you may cut off my branches and build a house.  Then you will be happy." And the boy cut off her branches and carried them away to build his house.  And the tree was happy.
    But the boy stayed away for a long time. And when he came back, the tree was so happy she could hardly speak. "Come, Boy," she whispered, "Come and play."

    “I am too old and sad to play," said the boy. "I want a boat that can take me far away from here. Can you give me a boat?"
    "Cut down my trunk and make a boat," said the tree. "Then you can sail away...... and be happy." And so the boy cut down her trunk and made a boat and sailed away.  And the tree was happy.... but not really.  And after a long time the boy came back again.

    "I am sorry, Boy," said the tree, "but I have nothing left to give you.  My apples are gone."
    "My teeth are too weak for apples," said the boy.
    "My branches are gone," said the tree. "You cannot swing on them.”
    "I am too old to swing on branches," said the boy.
    "My trunk is gone," said the tree. "You cannot climb."
    "I am too tired to climb," said the boy.
    "I am sorry," sighed the tree. "I wish that I could give you something------ but I have nothing left. I am just an old stump."
   "I don't need very much now," said the boy. "just a quiet place to sit and rest. I am very tired."

   "Well," said the tree, straightening herself up as much as she could, "Well, an old stump is good for sitting and resting. Come, Boy, sit down. Sit down and rest." And the boy did.  And the tree was happy.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011





Found this while doing some research for one of my classes....

In the Jewish tradition "whosoever saves a single life- saves an entire universe"

makes me think!



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Also, I love the lyrics to the new One Republic Song - Good Life


Woke up in London yesterday
Found myself in the city near Piccadilly
Don't really know how I got here
I got some pictures on my phone
New names and numbers that I don't know
Address to places like Abbey Road
Day turns to night, night turns to whatever we want
We're young enough to say

Oh this has gotta be a good life
This has gotta be a good life
This could really be a good life, good life
Say oh, got this feeling that you can't fight
Like this city is on fire 'night
This could really be a good life
A good, good life

To my friends in New York, I say hello
My friends in L.A. they don't know
Where I've been for the past few years or so
Paris to China to Col-or-ado
Sometimes there's airplanes I can' t jump out
Sometimes there's bullshit that don't work now
We are god of stories but please tell me-e-e-e
What there is to complain about

When you're happy like a fool
Let it take you over
When everything is out
You gotta take it in

Oh this has gotta be a good life
This has gotta be a good life
This could really be a good life, good life
http://www.elyricsworld.com/good_life_lyrics_one_republic.html
Say oh, got this feeling that you can't fight
Like this city is on fire 'night
This could really be a good life
A good, good life

Hopelessly
I feel like there might be something that I'll miss
Hopelessly
I feel like the window closes oh so quick
Hopelessly
I'm taking a mental picture of you now
'Cuz hopelessly, hopelessly
I have so much to feel good about

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Phases

Different phases of life come and go.  Up until now the phases of my life have remained fairly constant.  I have never really been too sad to move on to the next phase.  The next phase always had the illusion of being more exciting than the current.  But now- the current phase is the exciting phase.  It's the phase that I have been dreaming of all my life.  Let's hope that the next phase of my life is just as amazing as the present one.  Let's hope that all good things do not come to an end. 

The picture was taken at "Pretty Place" North Carolina.  I went one morning with some of my friends to see the sun rise.  It was simply WONDERFUL :)

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Wonderful Day with Wonderful People

With each day that passes, I fall more and more in love.....with life!  It is simply AMAZING and I cannot reiterate that enough. Everyday is a new adventure, a new place, new people, and just pure joy. Today, I went to lake Jocasee for a reunion dinner with everyone from Serbia.  When I was younger I went camping there with my family- but didn't really understand it's beauty.  I hope to make it up there again soon, curl up with a nice book, and just marvel :)

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Just a Few of My Favorites

"life is life"
- Lilla

"Life is a dance....you learn as you go"

"If you want happiness....
for an hour-take a nap
for a day- go fishing 
for a month- get married 
for a year- inherit a fortune
for a lifetime- help someone else"
-Chinese Proverb 

"All mean dream, but not equally.  Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds, wake in the day to find that it was vanity but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they many act on their dreams with open eyes, to make them possible"
-T.E Lawrence 

"Shit happens...and so does love"
-Vlada

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

While I was in Serbia, I read a book by a Serbian Noble Peace Prize winner named Ivo Andric.  He wrote about the turmoils that occur in the Balkan region, especially Bosnia.  Here is an exert from his book The Bosnian Chronicles that I recently began reading.  I thought that it was so beautiful and poetic and really hit home with me and how I am beginning to feel about life.  So here it is.  Maybe it will hit home with you as well :)

"So long as a man leads a normal, ordered life among his own kind, such details of his career represent important phases and significant turning points in his life, but as soon as chance, illness, or an assignment separate and isolate him, these highlights begin suddenly to fade and gutter, to wither and shrivel like so many paper-mache masks that one has no use for any more.  And from underneath there begins to emerge our other life, known to only ourselves, the "true" story of our spirit and body, one that has not been set down anywhere and which no other person can begin to guess at, a story that has no visible connection with our successes in society but which, in the final tally of good and evil in our existence, is the only concrete and decisive one"
-Ivo Andric 

Monday, September 19, 2011

Thanks....Again!

I recently found this short story in an old journal of mine.  I was first introduced to this story in my teacher cadet class my senior year of high school.  Every time I read it- it gives me chills.  Enjoy!

 A British family journeyed to Scotland for a summer vacation.  The mother and father were looking forward to enjoying the beautiful Scottish countryside with their young son.  But one day the son wandered off all by himself and got in trouble.  As he walked through the woods, he came across an abandoned swimming hole, and as most boys his age do, he took off his clothes and jumped in.  He was totally unprepared for what happened next.  Before he had time to enjoy the pool of water, he was seized by a vicious attack of cramps.  He began calling for help while fighting a losing battle with the cramps to stay afloat.  Luckily, it happened that in a nearby field a farm boy was working.  When he heard the frantic cries for help, he brought the English boy to safety.  The father whose son had been rescued was of course very grateful.  The next day, he went to meet the youth who had saved his son's life.  As the two talked, the Englishman asked the brave lad what he planned to do with his future.  The boy answered, "Oh, I suppose I'll be a farmer like my father."  The grateful father said, "Is there something else you'd rather do?" "Oh, yes!" answered the Scottish lad.  "I've always wanted to be a doctor.  But we are poor people and could never afford to pay for my education."  "Never mind that," said the Englishman.  "You shall have your heart's desire and study medicine.  Make your plans, and I'll take care of the costs".  So, the Scottish lad did indeed become a doctor.  There is more, Some years later, in December of 1943, Winston Churchill became very ill with pneumonia while in North Africa.  Word was sent to Sir Alexander Fleming, who had discovered the new wonder drug, penicillin, to come immediately.  Flying in from England, Dr. Fleming administered his new drug to the ailing prime minister.  In doing so, he saved Churchill's life for the second time.  For it was the boy Winston Churchill whom Alexander Fleming had rescued from the swimming hole so many years before.
- From the Speakers Library of Business

Every single time I read this is puts life further into perspective to me.  Just one chance encounter can literally change the world.  We never know what difference we are making in life- and what good deeds will make all the difference. 

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Loving and Living


                                                
So I haven't had the opportunity to do any major traveling since getting back from Serbia, but I did had a rather delightful experience just a few hours from Clemson. I went kayaking down the Ocoee river with my father.  It was so nice to get some father daughter bonding time in and do something with him that he loves so much. Here's a picture of my tipping over while going over a rapid.  Luckily, I had my wonderful daddy there to help me out of the situation :)

You don't have to travel outside the country to have amazing and fulfilling travel experiences!

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Que Sera Sera

So...It has been a long time since I have updated my blog, but I promise you it has been for good reason.  When I initially created this blog I had the idea that I could only update it when I was traveling, but I have so many ideas and thoughts that I cannot just limit this blog to travel. 

There are a few things that I wanted to share in this post.  First of all- just some updates on what I have been doing with my summer.  After getting back from Serbia, I stayed at home for a few days and worked for my dad then made my way back up to Clemson South Carolina.  Here, I am working at Keowee Key country club at night and just overall loving life and enjoying each day.  My new philosophy on life is Que Sera Sera (whatever will be will be).  I first heard this saying when I was little.  My grandmother used to sing the song to my while sitting in her lap.  I always loved the song but never truly thought about the meaning. But recently, I have been trying to focus on the meaning of the saying and have tried to live my life by those words.  It is my goal each and everyday not to let the little things bother me and not dwell.  I still have to work on this but I do believe with each day, I am making progress.  So enough with this rant....and back to what I was saying before.  This summer has just been amazing.  I am having so much fun.....and just trying to take advantage of all the opportunities that I have been so very blessed with. 


On Tuesday, I went to a Selena Gomez concert in Atlanta with one of my roommates and a little girl that she used to babysit.  It might not seem like the ideal concert experience for a 20yr old girl, but it was defiantly fun and an experience within itself. 

As far as traveling goes that pretty much as much as I have done since being back from the Balkans.  Ideally, I would like to backpack across Europe next summer.  Hopefully that will work out but as I like to say...QUE SERA SERA :)....Also, over spring break, I will be visiting Washington D.C with Vlada to do much of the same sort of thing that we did while in Serbia (I'm so excited). 

So I suppose all of this rambling pretty much sums up my summer.  I know its hard to follow!! Oh I also wanted to share a link that my roomie found while stumbling.  It will change your life :) read it!

http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/8YZSE0/www.highexistence.com/life-secrets-and-tips/comment-page-1

Friday, July 1, 2011

So late

 Turkish Coffee in Sarajevo, Bosnia
 Serbian Orthodox Church in the mountains....the drive up to it was intense.  
 Mostar, Bosnia
 Beautiful beach in Montenegro just ten minutes from the city we were staying in.
A bullet hole in a building from the wars in the 1990s (Mostar)





So I've been back from Serbia for a while now...but I thought that I would put up a few final pictures that summed up the last few days of my trip.  ENJOY :)

Saturday, June 4, 2011

Montenegro and Croatia Pictures







Montenegro and Croatia


My time in Montenegro has been extremely eventful thus far.  As you read from my previous blog- the ride to Montenegro was beautiful.  The mountains here are unlike any other.  Actually, the country was named after monte (mountain) and negro (black)…so black mountain = Montenegro.
Our first day in Montenegro was mostly spent on the wonderful little beach of Petrovac (where we are staying).  Just out from the beach, there is a little island with a church on top of it, and surrounding the beach are rocky cliffs on both sides.  

We went to our first meeting on Monday with the school of Political Science in the capital city.  The meeting was pretty interesting, but we got a little too heated when it came to the topic of health care in the U.S.  The students of Montenegro obviously favored the European way of socialized health care and the general opinion among us being in favor of privatization. 

This week has been packed full of sightseeing opportunities.  We went to a medieval city called Kotor (in Montenegro).  It was quant and gorgeous. The city is surrounded by a giant wall like most medieval cities.  Inside of the walls it looks like something straight from Italy.  

For lunch that day, we had a massive meal of the usual grilled meats, and French fries.  The café that we ate at was very cute and all and all the meal was quite nice.

After Kotor, we went to a beautiful monastery near another small town in Montenegro.  This experience was like something out of a fairytale.  So mind blowingly fantastic!  The church was on an island just outside of the town and made by sinking old ships.  Just to paint a visual picture of situation, it is located on the most perfect lake you have ever seen- situated in the grand mountains of Montenegro.

Our trip to Dubrovnik Croatia was in great contrast to many places that we have visited thus far.  Croatia is probably the closest country (that we have visited) to joining the EU.  The presence of that is felt everywhere.  Unlike Serbia, Montenegro, and Bosnia- Croatia lacks some of these countries ruggedness and untouched charm.  Nevertheless- the city is still outstandingly breathtaking and amazing in every which way. 
Dubrovnik is without a doubt a magnificent city, but tourism there is comparable to any great city in Europe.  I think that I prefer feeling a personal connection to the beauty of a city- instead of sharing that connection with thousands of tourist too!  

While in Dubrovnik, we took a tour of the city walls.  The views of the old city, the wall, the mountains, and the ocean were inspiring!  I ever picked up a hand painted picture of the scene for a mere 5 Euro…so worth it!

To end this entry I would like to make a comment on the meal we had in Dubrovink.  It was just great, a platter of seafood and risotto with squid ink!  Soooo good!

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Lastest Picture Updates



The Trip to Montenegro

This entire trip has been nothing short of spectacular, but these past few days have been the most influential, not just of this trip- but of my entire life.  I can without a doubt say that I am an entirely different and changed person.

The day before yesterday, we departed from Belgrade and began our quest to Montenegro.  Along the way, we made stops in Srebrenica  and The Bridge on the Drina. 

The view from my window on the bus was beautiful.  The mountains of Bosnia are incomparable in magnificence to any other that I have seen before.  Situated in this magnificent scene is the small town of Srebrenica.  In Srebrenica some of the most cruel and horrific acts a man could ever commit occurred in 1995.  Serbia committed acts of genocide against Bosniak Muslims.  In total 8,375 men (and some women and children) were slaughtered.  There are still finding bodies today in mass graves scattered across the mountains.

While in Srebrenica - we visited with an organization that is working to move Srebrenica past its dark past.   They had little funding and just listening to the women speak was terribly depressing.  Her words preached hope, but in her eyes and expressions, hope was no were to be found. 

On a happier note, we had the opportunity to visit The Bridge on the Drina- which was the inspiration for Ivo Andric's famous novel.  This experience was rather emotional for me.  After reading the entire book- it was sad to see that the problems created around the bridge in the past have not been resolved in the present- or I guess I should say no happy ending in the end.  There was trash on the spectacular bridge and beggars hunched in the corners.  The town around the bridge seemed to be on the poverty line.  I would think that such a great bridge would yield a great city. 

After leaving the bridge, we headed to Montenegro...we didn't see much because it was getting dark, but what we did see was AMAZING- something out of a fairytale.  The mountains, lakes, and tunnels through the mountains were stunning!

Sunday, May 29, 2011

St. Sava Temple



We had the unique experience of taking an elevator to the top of St. Sava temple in Belgrade.  St. Sava is a Serbian Orthodox church that has been in construction since the 1930s.  It is predicted to be finished completely in about 10-15 yrs.  The church is 70m high and we had the unique opportunity to take an elevator to the top of it.  I have to admit I was terrified.   The elevator was definitely nothing that would pass American safety inspections...seeing as in some parts there were no rails and the base was just made of distressed wood.  Even though the experience was terrifying, it was worth it in the end, because the views from the top of the temple were simply amazing!!

Friday, May 27, 2011

River Cruise

A lot has happened since the last time I updated my blog.....

We have been to a number of meetings with both NGOs and the government of Serbia.  I will update my blog with those meeting summaries asap.

Yesterday, we went on a riverboat tour guided by professor Matic's quirky nephew- Milanko.   We toured an island that was surrounded by adorable little houseboats.  Each one was unique and full of charm and character.  After touring the island, we had lunch at a restaurant on the river and had a mixed fish soup.  I surprisingly loved it- but my enjoyment of the soup was cut short.  I knocked over my bowl and spilled it all over my lap.  I feel bad for the rest of my group members because they had to put up with the smell of fish soup all day long.  We continued our lunch on the boat with a platter of freshly cooked catfish and trout. 

After lunch, we cruised to a small town just outside of Belgrade.  Unfortunately my camera battery died and I was not able to take pictures.  I'll have to steal some from other people that took some.

Anyhow, we went to a massive graveyard in the town and watched Milanko use his freelance archeology skills and excavate a mound with pots and coins from the Roman empire in it.  It's funny because we could just take whatever pieces we wanted form the (very different from western Europe or the U.S).

After the graveyard,  we climbed a tower with the most wonderful views of Belgrade, the Danube, and the small Serbian town. 

It was such a perfect day- perfect weather- perfect views- everything was simply perfect!

And just a little note for my Daddy, you would be so proud, I had so much fish yesterday and loved it all!

Also....one more note before I go.....yesterday was a very exciting day for Serbia.  The notorious war criminal Mladich (spelling?) was captured by the Romanian border.  This is another step in the right direction for Serbia to join the EU.

Sunday, May 22, 2011

The Opera



Last night I went to my first Opera in Belgrade.  We saw Mozart’s the Marriage of Figaro.  It was nothing short of AMAZING.  I was blown away with the view that we had from our front row seats.  The opera was in Italian so it was pretty hard to follow, but honestly there was no need to know what the words meant that they were singing.  It was so beautiful!

Friday, May 20, 2011




Journal as of May 20th

Here are my journal entries for the class thus far.  The journal entries are basically a very short and brief outline of each meeting that we have attended.  The information is limited in the journal entry- but it will give you some sort of an idea of what I am learning about.  Also, I'm sure that they are full of grammatical errors, but are only rough drafts, so I'm sorry for that.


May 16, 2011

Foreign Policy Priorities of Serbia
First, we listened to a lecture by the Ambassador Mr. Mirko Stefanovic.  He is the State Secretary for the Ministry of Foreign Affairs.  His lecture focused on the Foreign Policy priorities of Serbia.  A group of Diplomatic grad students from a school in Vienna also joined us.  The lecture was very informative and I learned a lot about my topic (Kosovo’s Independence).  Obviously, Serbia does not support Kosovo declaring its independence and does not recognize it as an independent sovereign state.  Also, I asked the Ambassador if the United States recognition of Kosovo affected U.S – Serbian relations and he responded by saying that the U.S and Serbia agree to disagree on Kosovo and agree on everything else.  It was interesting to listen to someone from the Serbian government discuss their position on Serbia.  He also focused on Serbia’s position on joining the EU.  Even though they know that the process is lengthy and it can cause many problems in the short-run, it is for the betterment of the country in the long run.  Ambassador Stefanovic really put Serbian Foreign Policy priorities into perspective for me. 
Ambassador of the Head of the department of Slavic countries
                Next, we listened to the ambassador of the Head of the department of Slavic countries.  I have to admit, this presentation was a tad bit hard for me to follow because the Ambassadors English was not perfect.  In spite of that, I still got a lot from this meeting.  He basically summed up Serbia’s relations with the surrounding countries.  It was really helpful to hear what Serbians position is with the countries that boarder it.  In relation to my topic (Kosovo) the Ambassador said that the two countries need to establish dialogue.   This is basically the same thing that the State Secretary for the Ministry of Foreign Affairs stated.  It is good that I now have a basic summary of Serbia’s position with each of its surrounding countries as summed up by a member of the Serbian government.  
The Helsinki Group
The next meeting we had was with Sonja Biserko- she was the director for the Helsinki Group for human rights.  This meeting was a lot less formal and much more of a one on one discussion.  Also, three of the students from Vienna attended this meeting.  Sonja was a very interesting person and this meeting was particularly interesting because for the first time we were able to hear the viewpoints of a person outside the government- from a NGO.  She was not afraid to oppose the government on many issues, although she does support Serbia becoming a member of the EU.  It seems that most Serbians believe that this is for the betterment of the country as a whole in the long-run (or at least most of the Serbians that we talked to believe this).   
May 17, 2011
Director of Latin America/ Canada/ and U.S
                We met with the director of Latin America and North American in the Foreign Ministry.  This time, the room that we met in was facing a busy road and the Ambassador had a very strong accent, so unfortunately it was very hard to understand him.  It did not help that I had to present on this meeting, but in the end everything turned out okay. 
The ambassador presented mostly facts and did not elaborate on his opinion much.  He stated that this was about the 130rd year of bilateral relations with the U.S.  He also talked about the different meetings that have occurred between Serbia and the U.S.  This includes the Biden meeting in 2009 and the Clinton meeting in 2010.  He made it seem like the U.S and Serbia agree on everything besides Kosovo and that they will “agree to disagree”.  He also stated that all dialogue between the two depicted cooperation.  He went on to talk about other things like cooperation involving military, the economy, culture, and education.  Overall, this meeting was not extremely helpful, most of the information discussed could have easily been found on the internet. 
Serbia and the EU
                This lecture was one of our most lengthy ones, as well as one of the most interesting ones.  We spoke with the Deputy Assistant for EU integration at this meeting.  He explained that the Serbian drive for the EU began in 2000 after Milo. went out of power.  He also explained that Serbia’s initial drive to be a part of the EU began in 1961.  He said that the Milo. Dictatorship destroyed much of the progress towards becoming a member of the EU that was gained in the past.  I wanted to ask the question “Can you please expand upon how the Kosovo incident hindered Serbia’s progress in being admitted into the EU?” but we did not have time. 
                He also talked about how just because a country receives candidacy to the EU does not mean that they will be granted it.  For example, Turkey has been a candidate for the EU for 30 years.  He stated that Serbia approves of Greece becoming a member of the EU because they are basically in line before them and once Greece becomes a member; Serbia will have a better chance of being considered next. 
                A memorable quote from him is that “candidacy does not mean anything unless you start negotiations” (in relation to EU membership).  He also said that only ¼ of the population works, and ¾ does not.   This defiantly made an impression on me.  In relation to this, he feels that membership into the EU means that Serbia will be safe for investors and he feels that Serbia will be a member of the EU by 2017.  For them to become a member of the EU regional cooperation is essential. 
Head of the Department of POSC
                When we talked to the head of the POSC department, the discussion involved the current situation in Serbia.  He said that many things have changed (now some 11 yrs. After milo.).   Many thought things would be better, but Serbians are not so high on the market economy and democracy.  After Milo. there were naive hopes that Serbia was on its way to NATO and the EU.   Now, people are seeing that things are not that easy.  People hoped that privatization would happen overnight.  I also learned what the “Colombian Syndrome” is.   It is stated that, if you are poor and bordering another country, but are denied access then you would target that exact market. 
                 The professor thinks that in 15yrs.  All of Serbia will be in Belgrade.  The reason for this is that the country side of Serbia has nothing to offer the younger generation of Serbia. 
May 18, 2011
Leader of the Social Dem. Party of Serbia
                He is also a psychology teacher.  We learned that psychology is a popular topic in Serbia (with 80% of psychology majors being female).  He explained that Yugoslovia was an odd sort of communist state.  The people could freely travel.  It was more of an “open communism”.  He said that today Serbia would be considered as “very liberal”. 
                An interesting fact is that the total land area of Yugoslavia was only about the size of Wyoming.   Also, he said that U.S has the only constitution in the world where man has the right to happiness. 
                One of the problems that Serbia faces today is Kosovo and also that Serbia is still in Democratic transition. 
May 20, 2011
European Movement
We met with two representatives from the European Movement.  They first started out by discussing what the NGO’s functions are and how they go about fulfilling these functions and goals.  One of the main goals of the EM is advocating for a Democratic Serbia.  Another goal or mission of the EM is to modernize Serbia.  They also explained that the EM is a “project based “organization and that they do not receive any money from the government of Serbia (one of the EM’s main projects in working with the youth of Serbia). 
After the 1990s, the EM started to invest in the youth.  They are very interested in fighting extreme nationalism in Serbia.  A lot of young people below 18 have the feelings of extreme nationalism, most likely because they were raised in the 1990s and in the 1990s they received a poor quality of education. 
In relation to Kosovo, they explained that dialogue between Serbia and Kosovo started about 3 months ago.  They said that no one knows what to expect from this dialogue with Kosovo, but everyone is happy that it is happening. 
Another interesting issue that they mentioned was that the citizens of Serbia do not know much about business or the business plan.  He explained that they do not know how to set up a business at all.
Youth Initiative for Human Rights
                On May 20, 2011 we met with the youth initiative for human rights- this experience was extremely different from most of our other meetings.  Even though we have met with other organizations that advocated human rights- this group seemed to be by far the most liberal of them all. 
They were strictly focused on human rights and spoke out against “hate speeches” which are basically hateful and discriminatory words or speeches.  One interesting fact that I learned from this is that hate speeches are not a criminal act but are fined, not punished. 
The group also spoke out against the Serbian Orthodox Church and the government of Serbia.  I thought that many of their points were valid and it was nice to get the view of the opposition, but the group was extremely liberal and I cannot help but wonder if they were somewhat biased in their own right as well. 

Day Trip




On May 19th, we visited two monasteries.  The first one was named Ravanica.  We learned that Ravanica had less security than the second monastery (Manasija) because the second monastery was built after the Kosovo war and security need to be heightened.  Professor Matic compared this to 911 and airline security.
After going to the first monastery, we ate at a wonderful little restaurant in the Serbian countryside.  This “traditional” Serbian restaurant had so much personality and charm.  Also, just a short walk from the restaurant was a beautiful and unexpected waterfall.  It was a nice and quaint lunch…and by far the best food we have had so far. Oh I forgot to mention that we went to a cave!!! I posted pictures further up in the blog!  Check them out!


Lastly, I have not had the opportunity to get on the internet much lately.  This is due to the fact that we no longer have internet at the hotel.  I will try to update this blog as much as possible, but please be patient with me. 
Love,
Tori

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Close Call at the Embassy

Today I had an extremely interesting experience.  We were walking past the U.S Embassy and my professor told us all to take pictures.....So naturally I was the first to pull out my camera (seeing as I love to take pictures).  As soon as I did this a Serbian official ran over to me and guided me to a control tower where he and another official examined my passport from top to bottom.  Professor Matic had to come over and explain that I was a student, and they took my camera and deleted my picture! For a second there, I thought I was surely going to get arrested.  Such a weird experience...but everything turned out just fine in the end :)

Monday, May 16, 2011

Ministry of Foreign Affairs


First Full Day of Meetings

Today we had our first formal meeting at the Foreign Ministry.  The building way BEAUTIFUL.  It looked very royal.  At our first meeting, we were joined by a group of students from the Diplomatic school in Vienna.  At this meeting we listened to an Ambassador Speak about the foreign policy priorities of Serbia.  It was very interesting and so neat to see professor Matic interact with his former colleagues. The Ambassador spoke about different topics like Serbia wanting recognition in the EU and Serbia's position on Kosovo declaring it's independence.  The meeting was very informative and I really enjoyed it.

Our second meeting was in the same room but with a different Amb., he was the Head of Department of Slavic countries.  His English was not very good and hard to understand, but the parts I got were very informative.  He basically summed up Serbia's relationship with the countries that border it or are around it. 

After the meetings, we took a lunch break at the hotel.  It was by far the best lunch yet.  We had veal soup, more Serbian salad, mashed potatoes, bread, pork, more veal, and bread...YUM! 

After lunch, we had a meeting with Sophie, who was associated with the Helsinki Group, this group is dedicated to Serbia rights.  She gave a lengthy lecture about different issues facing Serbia and the Serbia people. 


Bye for now!!! going to work on my journal :)